The Cost of Peace
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The Cost of Peace

A couple of years ago I dropped my now-teen off at the school dance. All the moms arranged to meet before the dance to take pictures of our young people. My kid stood among the forty-some other middle-schoolers whose parents were primping and preening over the kids we meticulously helped to clean up and dress….

Musical rooms
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Musical rooms

Remember the child’s game, musical chairs? It was the party go-to of my childhood. There are as many chairs as there are children. Each kid starts seated in a chair. When the music plays, kids move around the chairs. When the music stops, each child grabs the closest seat. For each round, a chair is…

Back to School Prayers

Back to School Prayers

It’s day 4 of returning to school and I’m toast already. Back-to-school for my teen. Yes, the kid has turned into a teenager, and despite my organization and preparation, I’m just not ready. The early early morning rising, the morning shuffle out the door to school, the checking “do you have the following things?” The…

Acts of God
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Acts of God

“Acts of God.” ​ When you sign those insurance forms, or really just about any contract, they indicate whose responsibilities are whose. And then they say, except for “acts of God.” These “acts of God” usually refer to unexpected unforeseen weather calamities – tornadoes, earthquakes, hurricanes, huge storms. I’ve always found it curious how otherwise…

The Messy Middle
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The Messy Middle

April. May. July. Early September.  ​ For years, I’ve posted on social media and in my newsletters about ways to remember and honor Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Mental Health Awareness Month, Minority Mental Health Awareness Month and Suicide Awareness Week, respectively. But not this year. Not last year. ​ I watched these seasons roll by…

The Milestones
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The Milestones

I feel like I’ve been writing this book forever. One reason is because it addresses one of those big questions that drives my overall academic work. So I’ve been chipping away at my ideas about this topic in different ways for the past 23 years.  ​ But the contemporary version of this book began in…