Who will Save Us?
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Who will Save Us?

Many girls are socialized to expect a man to ride up on a white horse and rescue them. This is the message of far too many fairy tales and animated (and rom-com) movies. Even if not literally swept off their feet, in many cultures, women are taught to see their worth and value in relationship…

The Fallout is real….
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The Fallout is real….

In January, I spoke at the annual meeting of the Society for Christian Ethics by the invitation of my friend and colleague Grace Y. Kao. I’m not an ethicist. I’m a philosophical theologian. I specialize in thinking and writing about what people believe. I’m particularly interested in how our beliefs mesh the ways we understand…

What my preteen and Martin Luther king jr. have in common
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What my preteen and Martin Luther king jr. have in common

Is this the hill to die on? I’m raising a preteen middle-schooler, and so I say this to myself at least twice a day as we negotiate, yes negotiate, time management, homework, sports, lessons, chores and video-gaming. I have clear values and principles and some concrete skills I want this kid to have in life….

Shaping Change
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Shaping Change

I’ve been quiet with you all because I’ve been so … without words. As a former resident of Pasadena and a resident of Los Angeles county for over ten years of my life, I have been bowled over by the recent fires in southern California. I’ve been concerned about my friends, checking in on those…

Does God make us suffer so we can learn important lessons?
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Does God make us suffer so we can learn important lessons?

It’s a fairly common idea. Because most of us try to understand unmerited suffering. Deep down (or not so deep down), most of us are okay with the suffering of people we think of as “bad” or “immoral.” We can even make peace when suffering seems to be the natural result of a poor decision….