Talk Back
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Talk Back

My parents called it “talking back.” Some people call it “sassing.” It’s that willful behavior that children have when they just have to respond to what they’ve been told—sometimes with attitude, snarky upturn of lip or obvious petulance. The admonition not to “talk back” is a few steps from the adage, “children should be seen and not…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 2)
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 2)

I long became comfortable with bleeding. The Red Tent, Honoring Menstruation and Sacred Woman guided me into a healthy relationship with my womanhood, my womb and the cycles of the moon. I didn’t know what to do when I stopped bleeding. It felt like weeks before I got to a pharmacy, asked if brand name…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 1)
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 1)

I grew up in the 1980s before AIDS was called HIV. My closest friends and I were trained to be deathly afraid of unprotected sex. At worst, you would get AIDS and die. And best, you got pregnant and there went your career dreams. Or so we believed as we sat around the pharmacy section…

I’m Back and Writing About Loss
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I’m Back and Writing About Loss

If you’ve been following my blog, you’ve noticed that I’ve been really quiet lately. Like all summer lately. What’s up with that? Well, part of the challenge of writing about depression is that it’s hard to write when depressed, and, well, depression happens. But I’m back – well, back to Beautiful Mind Blog – and…