The Miscarriage Chronicles: Robbed
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: Robbed

“Life is robbery.” I re-read this Alfred North Whitehead quotation to my students in the last weeks as we read through Adventures of Ideas. We were taking a welcome break from the philosophically demanding Process and Reality. I explained that this is one of Whitehead’s more frequently cited sentences because he succinctly and poetically describes…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: Motherhood With Depression
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: Motherhood With Depression

I wanted to be pregnant if only for the possibility of helpful hormones. “Pregnancy is great for some women with depression,” my psychiatrist says. “The hormones can help.” I think of my women friends with depression who tell me that pregnancy nearly killed them. That depression was only alleviated by taking their meds, and hoping…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: Activism Revisited
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: Activism Revisited

I grew up in a state of unionized workers. My mother was in a teachers’ union. My father worked for one of the “Big Three” automakers and UAW is an acronym every Michigander knows. Every year, there were talks of negotiations and talks of strikes. The only thing worse than buying “a foreign car” is…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 2)
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 2)

I long became comfortable with bleeding. The Red Tent, Honoring Menstruation and Sacred Woman guided me into a healthy relationship with my womanhood, my womb and the cycles of the moon. I didn’t know what to do when I stopped bleeding. It felt like weeks before I got to a pharmacy, asked if brand name…

The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 1)
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The Miscarriage Chronicles: The Loss Of Blood (part 1)

I grew up in the 1980s before AIDS was called HIV. My closest friends and I were trained to be deathly afraid of unprotected sex. At worst, you would get AIDS and die. And best, you got pregnant and there went your career dreams. Or so we believed as we sat around the pharmacy section…